The Necessity For Healthy Conflict Resolution | Disciple-Making Leader Podcast
Disciple First’s Disciple-Making Leader Podcast episode “The Necessity for Healthy Conflict Resolution” addresses how church leaders can respond to conflict in ways that are emotionally honest, biblically grounded, and practically effective. Pastor Glenn Underhill hosts a conversation with Craig Etheridge and licensed counselor Dr. Bernice Riley, who bring a mix of pastoral wisdom and clinical insight to the topic.
The episode focuses on how unresolved emotions often block progress in conflict situations. Each person stresses the need to first address feelings of threat, misunderstanding, and relational disconnection. Listeners are introduced to the H.E.A.R.T. approach, a tool for processing emotions before engaging in tough conversations. The episode draws from Jesus’ teachings and includes relatable examples, like how marital arguments often repeat because emotions are ignored.
The episode avoids simple formulas and instead helps leaders recognize the emotional maturity and humility needed to lead through conflict. Listeners also get access to a downloadable eBook, Fight Right, which includes worksheets and frameworks to use personally or with a team.
What’s In the Episode:
Introduction to the H.E.A.R.T. framework for emotional processing
Emphasis on empathy, relational repair, and spiritual readiness
Discussion questions to process this training with your team
Whats included in the free book:
The 36-page book outlines a step-by-step process for addressing difficult conversations, beginning with the heart and moving toward resolution. Key principles include owning your part, listening well, responding with empathy, and pursuing reconciliation over winning arguments. Leaders will gain a simple framework for preparing their hearts before conflict, guiding others through disagreement, and staying grounded in Scripture during high-stress moments. This resource is best used as a personal reflection tool or discussion guide for leadership teams wanting to handle tension with more grace and intention.
Listen or Download:
Episode Page + Free eBook
Listen on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify